Want to wow that certain girl? Though you can’t control how she feels and make her fall in love with you, you can put yourself into a better light. Here are two methods for impressing a girl: first for a girl you don’t know well, and second for a girl who says she’s only interested in friendship.
Be Your Natural, Confident Self
This might seem a bit passive but you have to approach impressing a girl in a manner that isn’t revealing at all. Most women like the idea of being chased by men but realize that you are still an unknown entity to her and if you come on to her very strongly, she might push you back just for the sake of her safety. Further, if it is clearly visible that you are striving to impress her, she might interpret you as some sort of a player, for whom impressing girls is a regular affair. That is akin to neutralizing any sort of mystique or charm she would associate with you. Lastly, trying to be something you aren’t is the biggest mistake you could commit. The aura of confidence that stems from honesty is unparalleled. Just remember one thing—you might impress her once or twice with a false projection but the truth will surface eventually and you will be short of excuses to cover yourself.
Be Suggestive Not Loud In Your Approach
Don’t try to be loud, as if you are screaming for attention. There might be some girls who like attention-grabbing men but overall, being able to magnetize attention towards yourself without seeming that you are trying too hard is best approach. Thus, when you are talking on the phone, be soft spoken but hold your phone is such a manner that its brand worthiness is clearly visible. Similarly, you might be driving a premium car but rather than shouting about it over the phone, let the branded keychain hang and announce itself in a subtle manner.
Use Your Eyes Like Tools
More than your entire demeanor, your eyes can engage a girl in a more efficient manner. Just be careful with your eye language. If she happens to look in your direction and you catch her gaze, don’t stare so hard that she feels vulnerable. If you want to look at her, don’t be brazen in your approach. Merely glance at her every now and then; making it seem as if she has caught your attention but you haven’t fallen for her yet and you are not some desperado. Try to shift your gaze to something that is more innocent than her cleavage, like her pretty feet or the anklet she is wearing. Girls often get impressed when men behave in a slightly coy manner and besides the obvious. Observing the lesser noticed parts of her is going to induce the feeling that you are slightly different from the crowd and think beyond the obvious perspective of sexuality.
Be Prepared to Impress a Girl
Don’t try to wear an ensemble that makes you look like a branded male mannequin on the move. Dress simple but yes impressively. Grooming includes everything from the manner in which you trim your beard or shave, frame of your spectacles, belt, shoes, watch and your posture. Yes, posture or the manner in which your carry yourself should ooze comfort which in turn gravitates towards inherent confidence. Wear clothes that you can carry with ease. Try to focus upon the simpler things like wearing trousers or jeans that aren’t so tight that they make you uneasy.
Hold Your Own In Your Conversations
If you do get the opportunity to talk with her or around her, try not to compliment her too much or show desperation to be introduced to her. Try to keep the conversation about your opinions and things that could impress her like your hobbies or things you have passion for. Being slightly self-opinionated and passionate usually impresses women.
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